SHAMELESS.
A 5-Day Retreat for Gay Men Reclaiming Erotic Power, Affection & Connection.
February 12 — 16, 2026 | West Oahu, HI
12 Spots Only
You don’t need to “fix” yourself.
You just need a space where you can finally be all of yourself.
Too many gay men are still carrying unspoken shame — about their bodies, their desires, their pasts, their relationships.
This retreat is your invitation to release all of that — and return to the truth that your sexuality is sacred, your body is beautiful, and your connection to other men can be safe, loving, and deeply real.
We’re going deep. We’re getting honest.
We’re building community rooted in trust, affection, and freedom.
This is sacred. This is embodied.
This is your reclamation.
What to Expect
SHAMELESS is a 5-day immersion designed to help you:
Release deeply embedded sexual shame (religious, cultural, and family-based)
Reclaim your erotic power as sacred and sovereign
Build a personal sexual self-care practice grounded in trust and pleasure
Explore your earliest sexual experiences and rewire their impact
Learn how to navigate sexual relationships and non-monogamy with confidence and integrity
Strengthen connection and affection with other gay men through shared practice and vulnerability
This isn’t a surface-level retreat.
This is a fierce, loving, body-based return to your erotic truth.
The Experience
Thursday: Arrival & Opening Circle
Grounding, introductions, setting sacred space
Friday: Releasing Shame
Workshops, group rituals, coaching on healing old narratives
Saturday: Reclaiming Desire
Embodied practices, connection exercises, body celebration, nude beach day
Sunday: Building Affection & Connection
Workshops on love, boundaries, and non-monogamy
Group reflection, integration, and evening ritual
Monday: Integration & Closing
Guided closing ceremony, community shares, departure celebration
All sessions are confidential, queer-led, and deeply intentional.
Your Retreat Includes
✔ Shared bed lodging for affection and connection in luxury home
✔ Most meals provided
✔ All workshops, rituals, and group coaching
✔ Excursions (beach days, hiking, exploring the island)
✔ Resources for post-retreat integration
✔ Option for discounted 1:1 coaching afterward
Who This Is For
This retreat is for gay men who are ready to:
Stop living from sexual fear, guilt, or shame
Build confidence in their erotic expression and relationships
Heal the roots of sexual anxiety and disconnection
Experience authentic connection with other conscious men
Step into their full erotic power with pride, compassion, and joy
No performance. No pressure.
Just truth, breath, brotherhood, and liberation.
Location & Details
Oahu, Hawaii
Private luxury venue (address shared after registration)
February 12 – 16, 2026
Investment
$1,300
Payment plans available
“This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about bringing you home to the truth that your sexuality is sacred, your body is worthy, and your desire is divine. You don’t need more shame. You need space to remember who you are.”
— Coach Kevin Martin
Questions?
Email Kevin
kevin@safehauswellness.com