From Shame to Self-Love

A Weekend Workshop for Gay Men Reclaiming Erotic Power.

February 13 — 15, 2026 | Honolulu, HI
10 Spots Only

You don’t need to “fix” yourself.

You just need a space where you can finally be ALL of yourself.

Too many gay men are still walking around with unspoken shame — about their desires, their bodies, their pasts, their relationships.

This weekend is your portal out of all that.

We’re going deep, we’re getting real, and we’re calling back every part of you that was told to shrink, hide, or apologize.

This is sacred. This is spiritual. This is your reclamation.

What to Expect

FROM SHAME TO SELF-LOVE is a weekend immersion where you’ll:

  • Release deeply embedded sexual shame (religious, cultural, family-based)

  • Reclaim your erotic power as sacred and sovereign

  • Build a personal sexual self-care practice rooted in trust and pleasure

  • Explore your earliest sexual experiences and rewire their impact

  • Learn how to navigate sexual relationships and CNM with confidence

  • Be witnessed, held, and celebrated in a community of conscious gay men

This is not a surface-level circle.
This is a fierce, loving, body-based return to your erotic truth.

The Weekend Schedule

Friday Night:
Welcome Happy Hour Mixer (connection + vibe setting)

Saturday:

  • Morning grounding + meditation

  • Releasing sexual shame & reclaiming your power workshop

  • Initial sexual experiences workshop

  • Coaching on sexual empowerment

  • Group ritual + integration

Sunday:

  • Sexual self-care plan building workshop

  • Coaching on sexual confidence + consensual non-monogamy

  • Discussion on body celebration + positivity

  • Final ritual + closing shares

  • Optional celebration happy hour

All sessions are confidential, queer-led, and deeply intentional.

Your Ticket Includes:

✔ Full access to all group sessions, rituals, and teachings
✔ Refreshments + a sacred participant gift
✔ Intimate group coaching with Coach Kevin
✔ Resources for post-workshop integration

Who This Is For:

This is for you if you're ready to:

  • Stop living from sexual fear, guilt, or shame

  • Build confidence in bed, in dating, and in life

  • Understand and heal the roots of sexual anxiety

  • Be surrounded by other gay men who are doing the work

  • Step into your full erotic self with power and pride

No performance. No pressure. Just truth, breath, brotherhood, and liberation.

Location & Details

  • Honolulu, HI — private venue address shared after registration

  • February 13 — 15, 2026

    • Friday, February 13 — evening only

    • Saturday, February 14 — 9:00 am — 5:00 pm

    • Sunday, February 15 — 9:00 am — 5:00 pm

  • Light breakfast and refreshments provided

  • Independent lunch breaks for all participants

  • 1:1 in-person sessions available

“This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about bringing you home to the truth that your sexuality is sacred, your body is worthy, and your desire is divine. You don’t need more shame. You need space to remember who you are.

— Coach Kevin Martin

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$950

Early Bird Pricing
(first 5 participants)

General Admission

$1,200

In-person weekend workshop

Optional Add-on

+$300

1:1 session post-retreat
+ 1 month Voxer support

Questions?

Email Kevin
kevin@safehauswellness.com