SHAMELESS.

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Who am I?

I’m Kevin Martin — a sex coach, writer, and empowerment guide helping gay men break free from shame and finally own their sexuality, confidence, and truth.

I’ve spent the last ten years coaching, creating, and carving out safe, powerful spaces where gay men can heal, rise, and live unapologetically.

My work blends deep emotional insight, real-world tools, and no-BS support to help you stop performing for love and start living like you belong to yourself.

Whether we’re diving into sex, identity, confidence, or connection through 1:1 coaching, courses, or content — I’m here to walk with you through the fire, and into your power.

Current client, 37 yo.

“I didn’t just stop feeling ashamed — I started feeling fucking alive. Working with Kevin has changed my sex life, my confidence, and my relationships.”

Current client, 52 yo.

“I didn’t realize how much shame was running my life until Kevin’s work ripped it out of me. I’m having better sex, I’m more confident in my body, and I finally feel free to be the man I’ve always wanted to be.”

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2026 Retreats

From Shame to Self-Love

Workshops. Transformational sessions.
Firelit conversations. Real connection.
This is more than a weekend — it’s a reclamation.

In-person
Honolulu, HI | February 2026
Austin, TX | June 2026

8 spots each.
Pre-register available now.

Woo-Woo Crew — Free Weekly Guided Meditation

Register here.