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From shame to self-love.

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I help spiritual gay men overcome sexual shame.

I help spiritual gay men love and accept themselves, their sexuality, their bodies, and their relationships — free from judgment, criticism, and comparison.

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Who am I?

I’m Kevin Martin — a gay sex coach, writer, and empowerment guide helping gay men break free from shame and finally own their sexuality, confidence, and truth.

I’ve spent the last ten years coaching, creating, and carving out safe, powerful spaces where gay men can heal, rise, and live unapologetically.

My work blends deep emotional insight, real-world tools, and no-BS support to help you stop performing for love and start living like you belong to yourself.

Whether we’re diving into sex, identity, confidence, or connection — I’m here to walk with you through the fire, and into your power.

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Upcoming Conference

From Shame to Self-Love

Workshops. Embodiment sessions.
Firelit conversations. Real connection.
This is more than a conference — it’s a reclamation.

In-person, Fall 2025
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Free 30 Minute Radical Discovery Call

If you're craving support but unsure where to start, this is your moment to drop the mask, feel into the energy, and see if working together feels aligned.

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Power Hour — 1:1 Coaching Session

60 minutes of radical clarity, deep transformation, and unapologetic power. This isn’t therapy. This isn’t surface-level coaching. This is where shame gets burned, truth gets voiced, and you come home to yourself.

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Full Sexual Reclamation Journey

This is a full-body, soul-deep reclamation of who you are as a gay man. Through 10 powerful sessions, we’ll strip away shame, rewrite your story, and reclaim your body, your desires, and your truth.

Shame has no place here.

  • My OnlyFans is an extension of my healing work — a space where I model what it looks like to release shame and embody unapologetic sexual expression. By showing up fully in my body and desires, I give other gay men permission to do the same. This isn’t just content — it’s liberation in motion.

  • My JustForFans is a continuation of my mission to help gay men release sexual shame and reclaim their desires with confidence. It’s a space where I show what it means to celebrate the body, embrace pleasure, and live without apology. This is more than content — it’s an invitation to permission, freedom, and self-love.

  • My Substack is where I tell the truth — about sex, shame, love, trauma, healing, power, and what it really means to live as a gay man in full ownership of his story. It’s part personal journal, part call to arms, part roadmap for reclaiming your life. If you’ve ever felt like you were too much, not enough, or stuck somewhere in between — this is where we burn that down and build something real.

  • SHAMELESS is my signature on-demand coaching course designed to help gay men break free from sexual shame and finally feel at home in their bodies, their desires, and their power.

    Through a blend of coaching, guided exercises, and real talk, you'll unlearn the bullshit you were taught about sex and reclaim your right to feel, want, touch, and love without apology.

    This course isn’t just about feeling better — it’s about becoming unshakably you.

Upcoming Workshops

  • Releasing Sexual Shame & Reclaiming Your Power

    Wednesday, July 9, 2025
    12:00 pm HT via Zoom

    Unpack the roots of your self-hatred and destroy the inner messaging holding you back.

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  • Initial Sexual Experiences

    Wednesday, August 6, 2025
    12:00 pm HT via Zoom

    Explore the psychological impact of your initial sexual experiences and work with your psychology to transform your relationship to your sexual desires.

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  • Build Your Sexual Self-Care Plan

    Wednesday, September 3, 2025
    12:00 pm HT via Zoom

    Master the art of sexual self-care by creating an individualized routine that supports, enhances, and celebrates your sexual empowerment.

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