Who Am I?
I’m Coach Kevin Martin — a Master-level sexual empowerment coach, shame healer, and guide helping gay men break free from self-hatred and finally own their body, sexuality, confidence, and truth with pleasure.
I’ve spent the last ten years coaching, creating, and carving out safe, powerful spaces where gay men can heal, rise, and live unapologetically.
My work blends deep emotional insight, real-world tools, and no-BS support to help you stop performing for love and start living like you belong to yourself.
Whether we’re diving into sex, identity, confidence, or connection through 1:1 coaching, retreats, or content, I’m here to walk with you through the fire, and into your power.
A Note From Me
I’m not interested in fixing you. I’m interested in helping you stop abandoning yourself.
Your desire isn’t the problem. Shame is just loud, and it can get quieter.
Photographs by Brian Kaminski.
Current client, 37 yo.
“I didn’t just stop feeling ashamed — I started feeling fucking alive. Working with Kevin has changed my sex life, my confidence, and my relationships.”
Current client, 52 yo.
“I didn’t realize how much shame was running my life until Kevin’s work ripped it out of me. I’m having better sex, I’m more confident in my body, and I finally feel free to be the man I’ve always wanted to be.”
April Embodiment Reclamation Session
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April Embodiment Reclamation Session - Seattle -
SHAMELESS Portland 2026 Retreat
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Get in Touch
Interested in working together? Schedule a free 20-minute initial consultation with me to get to know each other further, to talk through your coaching interest, and to find the right path forward for you.
