SHAMELESS.

A 3-Day Retreat for Gay Men Reclaiming Erotic Power, Affection & Connection.

October 2-5, 2026 | Portland, OR

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You don’t need to “fix” yourself.

You just need a space where you can finally be all of yourself.

Too many gay men are still carrying unspoken shame — about their bodies, their desires, their pasts, their relationships.

This retreat is your invitation to release all of that — and return to the truth that your sexuality is sacred, your body is beautiful, and your connection to other men can be safe, loving, and deeply real.

We’re going deep. We’re getting honest.
We’re building community rooted in trust, affection, and freedom.

This is sacred. This is embodied.
This is your reclamation.

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What to Expect

SHAMELESS is a 3-day immersion designed to help you:

  • Release deeply embedded sexual shame (religious, cultural, and family-based)

  • Reclaim your erotic power as sacred and sovereign

  • Build a personal sexual self-care practice grounded in trust and pleasure

  • Learn how to navigate sexual relationships and consensual non-monogamy with confidence and integrity

  • Strengthen connection and affection with other gay men through shared practice and vulnerability

This isn’t a surface-level retreat.

This is a fierce, loving, connection-based return to your erotic and spiritual truth, founded in genuine love.

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The Experience

Friday: Arrival & Opening Circle

  • Welcome & introductions

  • Mixer to get to know each other

  • Games, snacks, drinks, and movies

Saturday: Releasing Shame

  • Guided group meditation

  • Releasing Sexual Shame workshop

  • Hoʻoponopono forgiveness meditation

  • Establishing Sexual Goals workshop

  • 1:1 sessions

Sunday: Reclaiming Desire + Building Affection & Connection

  • Optional naked guided group meditation

  • Exploring Sexual Interests workshop

  • Eneverence workshop

  • 1:1 sessions

Monday: Integration & Closing

  • Guided closing ceremony

  • Community shares

  • Next steps

All sessions are confidential, queer-led, and deeply intentional.

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Your Retreat Includes

✔ Shared and private lodging options in luxury home
✔ One 30 minute 1:1 coaching session with Kevin
✔ Most meals provided
✔ All workshops, rituals, and group coaching
✔ Group meditations and activities
✔ Resources for post-retreat integration

Who This Is For

This retreat is for gay men who are ready to:

  • Stop living from sexual fear, guilt, or shame

  • Build confidence in their erotic expression and relationships

  • Heal the roots of sexual anxiety and disconnection

  • Experience authentic connection with other conscious men

  • Step into their full erotic power with pride, compassion, and joy

No performance. No pressure.
Just truth, breath, brotherhood, and liberation.

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Location & Details

  • Portland, OR

  • Private home venue (address shared after registration)

  • October 2 through 5, 2026

Extension of Appreciation

  • Commuter: $900

  • Bunk Bed: $1,400

“This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about bringing you home to the truth that your sexuality is sacred, your body is worthy, and your desire is divine. You don’t need more shame. You need space to remember who you are.”

— Coach Kevin Martin

Register today.

Email Kevin with questions