SHAMELESS.
A 3-Day Retreat for Gay Men Reclaiming Erotic Power, Affection & Connection.
October 2-5, 2026 | Portland, OR
You don’t need to “fix” yourself.
You just need a space where you can finally be all of yourself.
Too many gay men are still carrying unspoken shame — about their bodies, their desires, their pasts, their relationships.
This retreat is your invitation to release all of that — and return to the truth that your sexuality is sacred, your body is beautiful, and your connection to other men can be safe, loving, and deeply real.
We’re going deep. We’re getting honest.
We’re building community rooted in trust, affection, and freedom.
This is sacred. This is embodied.
This is your reclamation.
What to Expect
SHAMELESS is a 3-day immersion designed to help you:
Release deeply embedded sexual shame (religious, cultural, and family-based)
Reclaim your erotic power as sacred and sovereign
Build a personal sexual self-care practice grounded in trust and pleasure
Learn how to navigate sexual relationships and consensual non-monogamy with confidence and integrity
Strengthen connection and affection with other gay men through shared practice and vulnerability
This isn’t a surface-level retreat.
This is a fierce, loving, connection-based return to your erotic and spiritual truth, founded in genuine love.
The Experience
Friday: Arrival & Opening Circle
Welcome & introductions
Mixer to get to know each other
Games, snacks, drinks, and movies
Saturday: Releasing Shame
Guided group meditation
Releasing Sexual Shame workshop
Hoʻoponopono forgiveness meditation
Establishing Sexual Goals workshop
1:1 sessions
Sunday: Reclaiming Desire + Building Affection & Connection
Optional naked guided group meditation
Exploring Sexual Interests workshop
Eneverence workshop
1:1 sessions
Monday: Integration & Closing
Guided closing ceremony
Community shares
Next steps
All sessions are confidential, queer-led, and deeply intentional.
Your Retreat Includes
✔ Shared and private lodging options in luxury home
✔ One 30 minute 1:1 coaching session with Kevin
✔ Most meals provided
✔ All workshops, rituals, and group coaching
✔ Group meditations and activities
✔ Resources for post-retreat integration
Who This Is For
This retreat is for gay men who are ready to:
Stop living from sexual fear, guilt, or shame
Build confidence in their erotic expression and relationships
Heal the roots of sexual anxiety and disconnection
Experience authentic connection with other conscious men
Step into their full erotic power with pride, compassion, and joy
No performance. No pressure.
Just truth, breath, brotherhood, and liberation.
Location & Details
Portland, OR
Private home venue (address shared after registration)
October 2 through 5, 2026
Extension of Appreciation
Commuter: $1,200
Private Bed in Shared Room: $1,900
Shared Bed in Private Room: $2,100
Private Bed in Private Room: $2,800
“This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about bringing you home to the truth that your sexuality is sacred, your body is worthy, and your desire is divine. You don’t need more shame. You need space to remember who you are.”
— Coach Kevin Martin
Apply today.
Participation in this retreat requires a free 20-minute initial consultation.
This conversation gives us space to walk through the retreat experience, answer your questions, and ensure mutual alignment before registration.
This step exists to support the safety, depth, and integrity of the retreat container.