From Shame to Self-Love
A Weekend Workshop for Gay Men Reclaiming Erotic Power.
October 3 — 5, 2025 | Portland, OR
8 Spots Only | Lodging Optional
You don’t need to “fix” yourself.
You just need a space where you can finally be ALL of yourself.
Too many gay men are still walking around with unspoken shame — about their desires, their bodies, their pasts, their relationships.
This weekend is your portal out of all that.
We’re going deep, we’re getting real, and we’re calling back every part of you that was told to shrink, hide, or apologize.
This is sacred. This is spiritual. This is your reclamation.
What to Expect
FROM SHAME TO SELF-LOVE is a weekend immersion where you’ll:
Release deeply embedded sexual shame (religious, cultural, family-based)
Reclaim your erotic power as sacred and sovereign
Build a personal sexual self-care practice rooted in trust and pleasure
Explore your earliest sexual experiences and rewire their impact
Learn how to navigate sexual relationships and CNM with confidence
Be witnessed, held, and celebrated in a community of conscious gay men
This is not a surface-level circle.
This is a fierce, loving, body-based return to your erotic truth.
The Weekend Schedule
Friday Night:
Welcome Happy Hour Mixer (connection + vibe setting)
Saturday:
Morning grounding + meditation
Releasing sexual shame & reclaiming your power workshop
Initial sexual experiences workshop
Guest Session
Group ritual + integration
Sunday:
Sexual self-care plan building workshop
Coaching on sexual confidence + CNM
Guest Session
Final ritual + closing shares
Optional celebration happy hour
All sessions are confidential, queer-led, and deeply intentional.
Your Ticket Includes:
✔ Full access to all group sessions, rituals, and teachings
✔ Refreshments + a sacred participant gift
✔ Access to guest facilitators
✔ Intimate group coaching with Coach Kevin
✔ Resources for post-workshop integration
Lodging (Optional Add-On)
Want to stay onsite and fully drop in?
A limited number of beds are available at the private retreat home. Staying onsite gives you deeper connection, more time in sacred space, and a true retreat experience.
General Admission: $900
Workshop only
VIP: $1,200
GA + 1:1 session post-retreat + 1 month Voxer
Lodging: $500 (optional add-on)
2 nights shared room
Who This Is For:
This is for you if you're ready to:
Stop living from sexual fear, guilt, or shame
Build confidence in bed, in dating, and in life
Understand and heal the roots of sexual anxiety
Be surrounded by other gay men who are doing the work
Step into your full erotic self with power and pride
No performance. No pressure. Just truth, breath, brotherhood, and liberation.
Location & Details
Portland, OR — private venue address shared after registration
October 3 — 5, 2025 — Fri 5 PM – Sun 5 PM
Light breakfast and refreshments provided
Independent lunch breaks for all participants
Dinners included for those who are lodging
1:1 in-person sessions available October 6 — 10
““This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about bringing you home to the truth that your sexuality is sacred, your body is worthy, and your desire is divine. You don’t need more shame. You need space to remember who you are.”
— Coach Kevin Martin
Register today
General Admission
$900
In-person weekend workshop only
Popular
VIP
$1,200
GA + 1:1 session post-retreat
+ 1 month Voxer support
Optional Add-on
$500
2 nights shared lodging
Questions?
Email Kevin
kevin@safehauswellness.com